Teaching a Child to Pray

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One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is teaching them how to pray.
From the time they’re little, kids experience big feelings such as fear, anxiety, and uncertainty, even when we wish we could shield them from it all.

Whether it’s being dropped off at daycare, going to bed alone, facing a new school day, or hearing thunder in the middle of a storm, these moments can feel overwhelming. Prayer brings calm in the chaos and peace in the middle of fear.

Model Prayer by Example

The best way to teach prayer is by example.
When we pray out loud with our kids, they learn that talking to God is normal, personal, and powerful.

  • Praying before meals teaches gratitude for God’s daily provision.

  • Praying before bed quiets their minds and helps them rest in peace.

  • Starting the day with prayer invites God into everything ahead, from math tests to playground moments.

When my kids were younger, we prayed every morning on the drive to school. I’d ask for God’s protection, provision, and guidance for their day. Sometimes I’d forget when we were running late, and they’d remind me, “Dad, we haven’t prayed yet!”

Those small moments told me the habit was taking root and it made me smile.

Helping Children Build Their Own Prayer Life

Over time, children who hear us pray learn to pray on their own. They begin to understand that God listens, cares, and is always near. Soon, they start praying when we’re not around, in the middle of the school day, before a big game, or when they’re lying in bed at night.

Prayer doesn’t have to be complicated. It’s simply helping our children know they can talk to God anytime, anywhere, about anything, and that He loves to listen.

What a beautiful legacy for any parent to leave behind.

Ted D. Karr

Author of Need Pray Listen: Discovering How to Pray Powerful and Effective Prayers


 

 


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